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"Temple" is a symbol of Hindu faith where the Hindu Gods/Goddesses
reside. It is related to spiritual development of the human beings. If any
message is given out by associating it with temples, it symbolizes the importance
of the subject matter. When our first Prime Minister Nehru Ji described dams as
the "temples of modern India", it symbolized how important dams were
for the economic development of India.
Our
current Prime Minister Modi ji gave the statement of "Pehle shauchalaya,
phir devalaya (toilet first, temple later)". It was a very strong
statement given the significance of temples in Hinduism and had the potential
of hurting the sentiments of his followers. He himself had said, "I am
known to be a Hindutva leader. My image does not permit to say so, but I dare
to say". What he meant was that before spiritual development, we need
socio-cultural and economic development (especially for our girls/women) and
for that toilets are necessary.
An
important structure of the Hindu temple is "Garbhagriha" where the
main deity resides. The image of our country is imagined/expressed in the form
of "Bharat Mata". At the same time, our goddesses of knowledge (Maa
Saraswati) and wealth (Maa Laxmi) are also females. With so much of feminine
aspects in India's spiritual psyche, toilet in the house could be accorded a
place equivalent to garbhagriha in the temple, given the association of women's
dignity and honour with the toilets. Then why was the construction of toilets
not given a priority in India?
Here, I
want to share my own experience and related thoughts. Open defecation was a
regular practice in my village. But, it never occurred to me that women were
unhappy or complaining about it. Rather it always seemed to me like a get
together or a morning/night walk around the village in open air. At that time,
I was not aware of the terms like sexism, patriarchy etc, so I could not have
contemplated their role in open defecation. It truly seemed to me as responding
to the nature's call in the lap of nature. I also knew that women were not
allowed to go outside their home, then why the men didn't make toilets to
restrict their outside movement. And, if it was a matter of shame/dignity with
a lot of other issues like safety and health, why women didn't force their
families for the latrine construction, after all it was a matter of family
honour? Aren't these two contrasting observations?
Answer
lies in the socio-religious construct of Indian society. Defecating in the open
provided them with a rare daily opportunity to step out of the house, away from
the scrutiny of the mother-in-law. They
socialize and make bonds with their friends/other women of a similar age in
their village. Free from the household chores, they talk about the ups and
downs of their daily lives which play an important role in socialization.
Hence, women never regretted the absence of toilets in their house.
There
is mention of sewage and drainage system in Harappan civilisation; however
epics, Vedas etc do not touch upon these issues. Because of the cultural and religious
neglect of this issue, people still can't accept the presence of Puja Ghar/
Rashoi Ghar and toilet in the same house in spite of being aware of numerous
hardships faced by the women.
It's a
regular sight on the roads, streets etc where we see men relieving themselves. Sometimes
it becomes so disgusting that local bodies/authorities have to put God/Goddess’s
figure to stop them from urinating publicly. However rarely do we see women
doing so in the public places. Do we ever wonder why females never urinate in
public places? The answers are obvious. Women, from beginning, are trained to
control their bodily functions while young boys receive no such training. Perhaps
this is also the reason that men never felt the importance for toilets through
the women’s eyes. Thus, not constructing a toilet also had a socio-religious
angle to it.
Open
defecation poses a threat to women’s safety and dignity, which also has the
consequences on their health and education. Let us talk about them one by one:-
·
Safety: - Women go for open defecation either
before sunrise or after sunset as darkness allow a degree of privacy. It is
highly unsafe as there are often unwanted male attention on the streets and
fear of assault. It adds up to the psychological stress, already faced by the
women in a patriarchal set up. We still remember the incident of gang rape and
murder of two minor girls in Uttar Pradesh's Badaun which had happened when the
girls had stepped out of their home at night to ease themselves. There also
lies the danger of snake and poisonous insects' bites or getting attacked by
wild animals.
·
Health: - Women adjust their biological need to
relieve themselves in accordance with the feasibility of visiting the open
fields at a certain time (early morning and late night) and safety concerns.
They also reduce their biological need of food and water to minimize the need
to go outside the home. This problem is much more aggravated for pregnant and
menstruating women who have to carefully calculate and map their journey. These
all adversely impact their health.
·
Education: - Girls often do not attend school if
there are no private toilets, and this gets adverse with the onset of
menstruation. This also becomes the reason for increase in the drop rate from
school in rural areas. This accentuates the gender inequality.
·
Dignity: - Apart from health and safety issues,
women also feel humiliated because of answering nature’s call in the open,
especially when someone see them in that position. It often generates village
gossip and family shame, which lowers their self esteem. Often sexual assault/harassment
cases are not reported because it is interlinked with honour and shame of women
and her family. Thus, women prioritize sexual safety over health etc. This
preferential aspect also restricts their access to public spaces.
There
is also a caste angle to the open defecation. In India, dalits are mostly
landless people and their women are often sexually assaulted while relieving themselves
in the open. Being landless, they have no place to construct toilets even when
they are listed as beneficiaries under government welfare scheme. They have to
ease themselves on other people's land and face harassment.
With
the launch of Swachh Bharat Abhiyan, considerable progress has been made in the
field of toilet construction. Now, women don't need to go out in the dark and
look for a place to go where no one could see us in that position. Latrines are
more peaceful than open fields as women did not have to stand up each time
someone passed by they would be able to defecate peacefully.
Although,
the crimes against women have not ceased, the improved sanitation facility has
lowered the probability of sexual assault on village women, apart from
enhancing their self-esteem and mitigating the health consequences. For many
women, it's a sea change now.
However,
merely building toilets are not the solution. In many cases a family may use it
as a storehouse, washing purpose and others but not for defecation. Hence, it
is also necessary to address behaviour, cultural attitudes and social norms. Apart
from providing proper hygiene and sanitation facilities, Government/Authorities
also have an important role in changing people’s mindset. For example, in a
village “Bekkinakeri” in Karnataka, people were greeted ‘good morning’ at the
defecation sites. It was done to publicly shame them or make them feel guilt
about it. Now the village is ODF.
Recently,
a Rajasthan judge granted a woman a divorce because there was no toilet in the
house. The Judgement concluded that failure to provide her with toilet was
equivalent to cruelty. This also signifies the change in thought process that
social norms can’t be an excuse for not constructing toilets.
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